For me, I do believe she has a gift and is not of the devil, quite the contrary. Otherwise, my senses throw me into the devil category, which I know is not true. I am God’s, period. My primary senses magnify dark and good, people who have been abandoned/rejected, emotional things and for some reason, unfaithfulness. All are like a neon sign. To me, what I see is obvious to everyone.
To each their own as far as beliefs, and I'm not here to convince anyone of anything. My perception is different. I agree that when we are in heaven, (or dead,) we ARE gone. BUT, I do not see any person as one blob. I see that each person is made up of multiple things, the body ending up being the least on that list when its all said and done. Each person has individual love, their spirit, memory, personality, beliefs ...The list continues for days. We all leave our emotional fingerprints, and thoughts/love/energy/memory/presence is not something that disappears. I feel the energy of people with me often, and often, those people are alive. Are they REALLY with me? The answer is simple. Yes and no. Just the same as it is in death.